The Good Girl’s Guide to Being a D*ck

The book challenges the pressure to always be nice, patient and accommodating. Through practical advice and relatable examples, Alexandra Reinwarth explores how to recognize unhealthy relationships, stop worrying excessively about other people's opinions and become more assertive in everyday life.

Alexandra Reinwarth is a German author known for humorous and accessible books on self-development, relationships and everyday life. Her writing combines personal experiences with practical advice and an unconventional approach to personal growth.

The book argues that constantly trying to please everyone can lead to frustration, guilt and unhealthy relationships. It encourages readers to identify what and who is holding them back, communicate their needs clearly, set boundaries and make choices that better reflect their own priorities. Its central message is about becoming more assertive without being controlled by the expectations of others.